Richard Charles Wakefield, 82, of Oakland, Maine, passed away on March 12, 2026, following a sudden illness. Born on September 6, 1943, Richard—known affectionately as "Papa" or "Grandpie" to his grandchildren—lived a life defined by quiet strength, profound service to his country, and a resilient spirit that weathered the many seasons of a long, complicated, and meaningful life.

A veteran of the Vietnam War, Richard served with distinction in the elite U.S. Army Special Forces. His discipline and bearing as a Green Beret led to his selection for one of the most solemn duties in American history. Following the assassination of President John F. Kennedy, Richard was among the select group of Special Forces soldiers chosen to serve in the Honor Guard at the Capitol Rotunda. He stood watch during the historic vigil as the President laid in state and served as a military bearer during the funeral procession.

​While history views this as a monumental and sacred task, Richard, in his characteristic humility, often joked that the long hours of the vigil were simply "boring." He was a man who valued the reality of his experiences over accolades; though he earned a Purple Heart for his sacrifice in Vietnam, he famously chose to discard it during a time when many returning veterans were treated with disrespect. In his later years, he carried his service with visible pride, rarely seen in public without his Vietnam Veteran hat. He was also a dedicated member of the Shriners, finding great joy in taking his grandchildren to the circus and local fairs every year.

Richard’s legacy is built on the simple, joyful memories shared at the "sky blue house" in Oakland—building playhouses for his grandchildren, controlling the gas on the lawnmower while they steered, and spending summer weekends by the pool.

​He was a man of steadfast habits, rarely missing a Sunday at the Baptist Church in Oakland, followed by a "Number 5" breakfast at the Early Bird. He was a creature of habit who loved his Texas toast, over-easy eggs, and black coffee—always warning his grandkids that a sip of his brew would "stunt their growth." Even as a "stubborn old man," he possessed a surprising sense of humor and a heart that remained open to the family he loved.

​He worked for the Department of transportation for 32 plus years. In his later years, he found great purpose in his work at Colby College. He was a dedicated worker who loved the camaraderie of the kitchen and dishwashing area, remaining committed to his post and his colleagues until his very last days.

Richard is survived by his children: Rick Riley, Darin Beaulieu, and Rodney. He also leaves behind a legacy of grandchildren who were his greatest pride and who remained by his side, ensuring he was never alone in his final hours. He was predeceased by June M. Wakefield, with whom he shared many years of his early life and family history.

As he is called home to rest with his comrades, his family finds comfort in the soldier’s code:

​"Stand easy, Soldier. We’ve got your six. Mission complete—return to base."

​A formal service with full military honors and the playing of Taps will be held at a later date, pending confirmation for his interment at Arlington National Cemetery in Washington, D.C.

Memories and condolences may be shared with the family at www.directcremationofmaine.com